KEEPING THE DIVORCE PROCESS FRIENDLY

Divorce Does Not Have To Be Bitter

If you are married and socialize with a group of friends on a regular basis, at some point at least one couple if not several couples in that group will go through a divorce. It's inevitable. The divorce statistics are too high. Almost one in every two marriages ends in divorce these days and most of those divorces turn ugly. You know, you see it all the time. The "once" loving couple is now slinging mud at each other from across an expensive conference table in a high-powered attorney's office. But, it doesn't have to be that way.

• First Marriages: 45 percent to 50 percent end in divorce
• Second Marriage: 60 percent to 67 percent end in divorce
• Third Marriage 70 percent to 73 percent end in divorce [1]

The following scenario is typical of the type of divorce this firm handles through the eyes of the wife. It is based on the concept that couples do not have to hate each other or be bitter through the process of divorce:

Now, we're getting divorced. And are we sad? Sure. Am I blaming my husband for the divorce? Absolutely not. Is he blaming me? No. We tried to fix it but it didn't work. We loved each other and spent 12 years together but we shouldn't be married anymore. The best part is that we are taking responsibility for our part in the breakup of the marriage. There isn't any anger or hatred because we're not blaming each other. And by owning our own crap, our nine-year-old daughter is completely fine about us getting divorced. Yes, she's sad -- like we are -- but she's ok.


Some advice if you are considering divorce:

• If you're unhappy, go to your spouse and tell them what's wrong. Be completely honest.

• Communicate to your spouse and figure out if the two of you want to make an effort to save the marriage or not. No pretending to be innocent and harboring bad feeling.

• Look at your role in why the marriage is breaking up and own your crap. Don't just blame the other person.

• Communicate the truth about the marriage. Walk away knowing it was both of you who contributed to the downfall of your marriage. It's a powerful feeling.

Finally, do not waste your hard-earned money on legal fees when going through the process of divorce. Keep the money in the family. There is no need to litigate or “fight it out.” Most matters can be amicably resolved and the paperwork can and should be handled by professionals who are dedicated to saving you money.

Contact www.divorcefilers.com for a complimentary consultation. We have been handling divorce procedures for since 1981 for couples who do not wish to waste their time or money. Visit us at www.divorcefilers.com or call us at 212-608-1630. Our e-mail is: info@divorcefilers.com

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Divorcefilers.com is the new millennium's answer to obtaining a fast uncontested divorce. Divorcefilers provide a fast, simple and economical way to dissolve or annul a marriage in the most efficient manner In a world where time and money are always in short supply, the staff at Divorcefilers are dedicated to providing individuals seeking an amicable end to their marriage with the most rapid and cost effective means of accomplishing their goal. Our company was founded on the beliefs that the costs of obtaining a simple, uncontested divorce were getting out of control, and that there could be a reason. Individuals seeking an amicable, uncontested divorce do not, therefore, carry the burden of unnecessary attorney's fees. able, affordable alternative. 

We provide all our prospective clients with a free consultation in order to discuss court procedures, legal terms, court costs, and the filing process. Call us to arrange your free, no obligation consultation. You may contact us 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Our offices are conveniently located in downtown Manhattan, near Chambers Street. 

Frequently Asked Questions:

Why should I choose Divorcefilers.com over other services? Divorcefilers has been filing divorces since 1981. We offer free, no obligation consultations and that means no charge and no pressure to do anything except get all of your questions answered honestly and professionally. It is up to you to decide if and when you want our assistance. Personal service has always been our hallmark. Your case is unique and very different, in many ways, from every other case that we handle. We recognize this and offer you specific help with specific answers for your particular needs. Your case is handled on an individual basis. Fast service: Unlike many services which "pile up" their cases before they are filed with the court, (this process saves filers a lot of money) Divorcefilers prepares and files each and every case immediately. Cases are "registered" (the Index Number is purchased) the same day as the case commences. Divorcefilers believes that your time is extremely valuable and when you decided to obtain a divorce or annulment, you made a conscience decision to "get on with your life." Divorcefilers will help you move forward in life by preparing and filing all matrimonial documentation accurately and expeditiously. Economical: Why pay expensive legal fees if there are no legal issues in dispute? Divorcefilers will get you the same result for much, much less. See our Pricing Policy page for processing costs and expenses (court costs). We welcome you to compare us against all other services. We are confident that you will find that our unique, affordable and personalized service offers you the simplest and most economical way to an uncontested divorce or annulment. 

Are any court appearances required? 

Absolutely not. Divorcefilers prepares and files all of the court documents for you. We even obtain your final, certified copy of the Final Judgment of Divorce or Annulment for you. You do not have to deal with the pressures and frustrations of going to court. Do you only file Uncontested Divorces? While most of our clients are seeking uncontested divorces, we also file uncontested annulment matters and separation agreements. Remember, we do not offer legal advice or counsel, however, if there are no contested issues, you do not need to pay the high fees for legal services.

 Must my spouse sign divorce documentation? 

While the fastest and most economical way to obtain an uncontested divorce is by obtaining your spouse's signature, this is not always possible and it is not legally required. If your spouse refuses to sign a consent to an uncontested divorce, your spouse will have to be served by a process server with a Summons with Notice or a Summons and Complaint. If your spouse fails to respond within an allotted time, you will win the divorce case by default. If you cannot locate your spouse, you will need to pursue a divorce by publication which can become extremely costly. We always suggest that you do everything possible to locate your spouse. 

Does it matter where my marriage took place? 

No. As long as you meet the residency requirements, you may file your divorce in New York. 

Does Divorcefilers only file divorces, annulments, etc. in the State of New York?

While our flagship location is in New York, New York, our service is able to provide you with an uncontested divorce in virtually every state in the country. Divorces are governed by the laws of each individual state so please be advised that some of the information provided here pertaining to divorce law in New York State may not be the same for every other state.

How are fees paid? 

Our office accepts all major credit cards, personal checks, money orders and cash.

Does Divorcefilers guarantee its services? 

Yes, all of our services are fully guaranteed or your money back. We are very confident that you will be fully satisfied with our services.

Does Divorcefilers handle divorce matters when children are involved? 

Absolutely. Most of our clients do have children who were born during the course of the marital relationship. Issues of custody, visitation and child support can be easily handled by and through Divorcefilers if both parents are willing to cooperate with one another in the best interests of the child(ren).

Our Commitment to Keep the Divorce Process Simple and Economical

Divorcefilers.com handles uncontested divorces for couples who do not want to waste their hard earned income. We do not charge by the hour. We charge on a flat rate fee basis.  We provide a free initial consultation.  Our clients are made aware what the total fee will be before they even hire us.  If you are determined to wage war with your spouse, there are plenty of lawyers out there who will be more than happy to take your money.  If, on the other hand, you see the reason in compromising and reaching a fair agreement with your spouse, then we may be able to assist you.

New York is now a no-fault state when it comes to dissolution of marriage.  If only one of you wants the divorce and concludes that the marriage is irretrievably broken, there is little the other spouse can do to stop the dissolution.  There are no “grounds for divorce” that need to be established other than that the marriage is irretrievably broken

Many couples obtain dissolution of marriage without fighting and by agreeing on what is fair under their circumstances.  The process of divorce does not need to be a long, drawn out legal battle that drains you of your assets and pushes you to the brink of bankruptcy. 

If you reside in the New York City metropolitan area and are seeking help to amicably dissolve your marriage, our firm will be pleased to speak with you and answer your questions at a free initial consultation either in-person or on the telephone with absolutely no obligation to you. Divorcefilers works hard and uses its 30 years of experience to make the process of obtaining dissolution of marriage as inexpensive and painless and simple as possible. You may call us 212-608-1630 or 1-888-224-6800.

A Less Complex Divorce Alternative

Although Naturally Grueling and Stressful, A Divorce Does Not Have to be Expensive, Litigious or Unnecessarily Time-Consuming

  

Most of us are well aware that the process of divorce can be a grueling and stressful experience, emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually. For most individuals, it will be, by far, the most difficult crisis they will ever face. For many, there can be residual pain for years after the legal paperwork is completed and they receive their final judgment of divorce.

It seems clear that anyone involved in this most complex crisis should definitely seek out skilled and qualified professionals, both in the legal and emotional areas of expertise. The beginning stages of separation and divorce maybe difficult if not impossible to comprehend, as one never really believes that they will be in this position where outside professionals are now front and center in what used to be their private domain, namely the intimate relationship they once shared with their spouse.

Usually fear, anger and rage dominate as the primary emotions for most people at the beginning stages of separation. This is because the crisis of defusing two people who declared their love for each other is a complex one few professionals are fully comfortable navigating.

How then does one begin the process of pursuing a divorce in the most efficient, cost-effective manner?

Most divorce attorneys usually bill by the hour. The more help you need, the more it costs you. That is not a system that helps you when you need help the most. Sometimes the cost is just too much. How is the average person supposed to afford this process?

The answer may in fact be that you do not require formal legal representation at unaffordable hourly rates. If you and your spouse agree that you both amicably desire to obtain a “friendly” divorce and there is little if any property to be distributed, than why not consider utilizing a firm with 30 years of experience to put together the tedious paperwork and do all of the laborious “legwork” and obtain a final judgment of divorce for you in approximately two and one half months?

The staff at Divorcefilers.com truly cares and takes the time to accomplish the tedious task of processing a divorce in a compassionate yet economical manner. A complimentary consultation is always available to those seeking a peaceful resolution to this very serious issue.

Call today for more information: 212-608-1630.

Our Client's Can Now Track the Status of their Divorce Case Online

When a client engages a firm to process their divorce procedure, it would most certainly create a further feeling of trust and confidence if that client could track the status of their divorce case. Many firms make promises that they unfortunately do not keep.

The office of DivorceFilers.com not only promises to do what they say but they stand behind their 32 year's of experience in the divorce industry by creating an atmosphere of "transparency," trust and coinfidence since the client can now track the status of their divorce case "24/7." They can do this by clicking on the link located at the bottom the the first page of the DivorceFilers.com website entitled "SUPREME COURT CASE STATUS." By doing this, the client can be reassured that their case is on file in the Supreme Court processing system and that they are well on their way to obtaining a final Judgment of Divorce.

For further information on just how the dedicated staff at DivorceFilers.com can help you process and file your divorce in the most efficient manner where YOU DO NOTHING and the staff at Divorcefilers.com "DOES IT ALL FOR YOU," please visit our website located at Divorcefilers.com or call us for a no-obligation in-person or telephonic consultation at 212-608-1630.

DivorceFilers.com is the fast, efficient, way to an Uncontested Divorce.

Keeping the Divorce Process Friendly

Divorce Does Not Have To Be Bitter

If you are married and socialize with a group of friends on a regular basis, at some point at least one couple if not several couples in that group will go through a divorce. It's inevitable. The divorce statistics are too high. Almost one in every two marriages ends in divorce these days and most of those divorces turn ugly. You know, you see it all the time. The "once" loving couple is now slinging mud at each other from across an expensive conference table in a high-powered attorney's office. But, it doesn't have to be that way.

• First Marriages: 45 percent to 50 percent end in divorce
• Second Marriage: 60 percent to 67 percent end in divorce
• Third Marriage 70 percent to 73 percent end in divorce [1]

The following scenario is typical of the type of divorce this firm handles through the eyes of the wife. It is based on the concept that couples do not have to hate each other or be bitter through the process of divorce:

Now, we're getting divorced. And are we sad? Sure. Am I blaming my husband for the divorce? Absolutely not. Is he blaming me? No. We tried to fix it but it didn't work. We loved each other and spent 12 years together but we shouldn't be married anymore. The best part is that we are taking responsibility for our part in the breakup of the marriage. There isn't any anger or hatred because we're not blaming each other. And by owning our own crap, our nine-year-old daughter is completely fine about us getting divorced. Yes, she's sad -- like we are -- but she's ok.


Some advice if you are considering divorce:

• If you're unhappy, go to your spouse and tell them what's wrong. Be completely honest.

• Communicate to your spouse and figure out if the two of you want to make an effort to save the marriage or not. No pretending to be innocent and harboring bad feeling.

• Look at your role in why the marriage is breaking up and own your crap. Don't just blame the other person.

• Communicate the truth about the marriage. Walk away knowing it was both of you who contributed to the downfall of your marriage. It's a powerful feeling.

Finally, do not waste your hard-earned money on legal fees when going through the process of divorce. Keep the money in the family. There is no need to litigate or “fight it out.” Most matters can be amicably resolved and the paperwork can and should be handled by professionals who are dedicated to saving you money.

Call us for a complimentay consultation. We have been handling divorce procedures for since 1981 for couples who do not wish to waste their time or money. Visit us at www.divorcefilers.com or call us at 212-608-1630. Our e-mail is: info@divorcefilers.com

Automatic Orders: What are they?

Automatic Orders

An “Automatic Orders” bill was signed by Governor Patterson and effective on September 1, 2009 in New York. 

The Automatic Orders bill amends the Domestic Relations Law and requires that specific automatic orders be served upon the Defendant along with the Summons.  The automatic orders are binding upon the Plaintiff when the action for divorce is commenced, i.e., when the Summons is filed in the County Clerk’s office, and binding upon the Defendant when he is served with the orders.  The orders remain in effect during the matrimonial action unless terminated or modified by court order or stipulation of the parties.  There are five automatic orders as follows:

          

 1.         Neither party can sell, transfer, encumber, conceal, assign, remove or dispose of any property (including real estate, personal property, cash accounts, stocks, mutual funds, bank accounts, cars and boats) individually or jointly held by the parties, except in the usual course of business, for customary and usual household expenses or for reasonable attorney’s fees in connection with the matrimonial action.

 2.         Neither party can transfer, encumber, assign, remove withdraw or in any way dispose of any tax deferred funds, stocks or any other assets held in any individual retirement accounts, 401(k) accounts, profit sharing plans, Keogh accounts, or any other pension or retirement account, and the parties can further refrain from applying for or requesting the payment of retirement benefits or annuity payments of any kind, without the consent of the other party or order of the court.

 3.         Neither party can incur unreasonable debts, such as by borrowing against any credit line secured by the family residence, further encumbering any assets, or unreasonably using credit cards or cash advances against credit cards, except in the usual course of business or for customary or usual household expenses, or for reasonable attorney’s fees in connection with the matrimonial action.

 4.         Neither party can cause the other or the children of the marriage to be removed from any existing medical, hospital and dental insurance coverage and each party must maintain the insurance coverage in full force and effect. 

          

 5.         Neither party can change the beneficiaries of any existing life insurance policies and each party must maintain the existing life insurance, automobile insurance, homeowners and renters insurance policies in full force and effect.

           For assistance in processing a simple, friendly, uncontested divorce in New York at an extremely low cost contact Divorcefilers by visiting us at divorcefilers.com or by calling us toll-free at 1-888-224-6800.